Being in a relationship with someone who is controlling can be an incredibly difficult and isolating experience. You may recognise the signs of abuse and make the brave decision to leave. However, the harsh reality is that leaving an abusive relationship isn’t always the end of the control. In fact, for many survivors, the situation often worsens after separation.
For those who share children with their ex-partner, the dynamics of control can continue through co-parenting. Even after leaving the relationship, you may still be bound to maintain some level of contact with your ex. Co-parenting with a controlling or abusive ex can be emotionally exhausting, challenging, and often feels like you never truly escape the manipulation, harassment, or power struggles.
It’s important to remember that abuse doesn’t always stop when the relationship ends. It can evolve into post-separation abuse, where the abuser continues to exert power and control over your life.
Learn more about Coercive Control and Post-Separation Abuse Below:
Post Separation - The Challenges Ahead

We are here to support the women who have left an abusive relationship but are still suffering on-going abuse once the relationship has ended.
If you are experiencing ongoing abuse after you have left a relationship and would like to seek help and guidance, please go to our contact us page.