Mums In Need: Confronting Coercive Control
Mums In Need: Confronting Coercive Control
Supporting Mothers Experiencing Post‑Separation Abuse & Coercive Control.
Supporting Mothers Experiencing Post‑Separation Abuse & Coercive Control.
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No One Should Face Abuse Alone, Especially After Separation.
No One Should Face Abuse Alone, Especially After Separation.
Support, guidance, and solidarity for mothers navigating life after abusive relationships.
Support, guidance, and solidarity for mothers navigating life after abusive relationships.
Mums In Need supports mums facing emotional, legal, and financial abuse after leaving abusive relationships.
Mums In Need supports mums facing emotional, legal, and financial abuse after leaving abusive relationships.
Post-separation abuse is often hidden, from legal intimidation to co-parenting manipulation, and it leaves many mothers feeling isolated and afraid. Our mission is to offer trauma-informed support, practical resources, and a community that understands the depths of coercive control and post-separation abuse.
Post-separation abuse is often hidden, from legal intimidation to co-parenting manipulation, and it leaves many mothers feeling isolated and afraid. Our mission is to offer trauma-informed support, practical resources, and a community that understands the depths of coercive control and post-separation abuse.
Becky's Experience with MIN
"You made me, me again. I will forever and I mean forever be in your debt. You have no idea what you did for me. The weekly calls, the legal support - you even sorted my divorce and funded it! Oh my god, you set me free! Free from a life of hell. You did all that! Your team, your charity, your help. You saved my life".
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Understanding Post-Separation Abuse
Leaving an abusive relationship does not always mean the abuse ends.
For many mums, separation is the moment when control, intimidation, and harassment escalate. This is known as post-separation abuse, a pattern of behaviour used by an ex-partner to continue exerting power long after the relationship has ended.
Post-separation abuse can be just as damaging as abuse within a relationship, and in some cases, even more dangerous.
What is Post-Separation Abuse?
Post-separation abuse is a form of coercive control that continues after a relationship ends. It can involve ongoing harassment, manipulation, threats, and intimidation, often using children, finances, or the legal system as tools of control.
It is not about conflict. It is about power.
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Latest News:
Waiting List Closed!
Please note: We are currently at full capacity, so we have taken the decision to temporarily close our waiting list from Midnight 3rd November 2025 until further notice.
In addition to updating our website, we will let you know when the waiting list re-opens via our newsletter, and social media.
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In the meantime, you can find a range of resources on our website, here.
New Book: Buy Now
A powerful new book has just been released, giving a voice to those silenced by coercive control and post-separation abuse. The launch event will take place in Sheffield in November.
‘Write To Be Heard: Voices of Survivors of Coercive Control and Post-Separation Abuse’ is a collection of writings by survivors. The project was created to give people a voice, to raise awareness of the realities of such abuse, and to raise funds for Sheffield-based charity, Mums In Need.
After raising funds on Crowdfunder, Write To Be Heard invited women supported by Mums In Need to take part in therapeutic writing workshops. Participants, and others affected by coercive control and post-separation abuse, were then invited to submit their poems and prose to be featured in a book. To protect all those involved, all writing in the book is anonymous (although writers retain their rights to their own words).
Impact Report: 24/25
The continued support of our partners, supporters, and dedicated team has been instrumental in our ongoing mission to empower mothers and children facing post-separation abuse.
Thanks to funding, donations and fundraising we are delighted to have been able to support 109 women, and 194 children during our last financial year.
Have a read through our latest Impact Report to see just how your donations have helped>>
2025 Impact Report.pdf
About Post-Separation Abuse
Mums In Need (MIN) is a Sheffield-based registered charity that works on confronting coercive control. We support mums in Sheffield and the wider South Yorkshire area who have left an abusive relationship with the other parent of their child(ren) and are looking for help and guidance to rebuild their lives.
MIN’s services are tailored to the individual on a case-by-case basis, and can include 1:1 caseworker support, legal advice, counselling, wellbeing sessions, and peer support groups.
Our vital services provide practical guidance and emotional support to help our mums feel more confident and in control of their situation, to gain an understanding of exactly what they can do to help themselves and their children, and empower them with the skills and confidence to move forward with their lives.
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